Family Law Mediation

Mediation is a negotiation meeting between the parties to the case and a neutral third-party mediator. Basically, it’s a way for the parties to informally resolve all their issues with the help of a mediator. In most counties mediation is required. The idea behind force mediation is to give the parties a chance to “come to the table” and try to resolve their issues. 

Generally, the cost of family law mediation is shared equally between the parties unless one of the parties’ requests that the costs be paid by the other. 

Mediation can be in person or virtual.

Mediation is important because it gives the parties a chance to create their own legal outcome. When minor children are involved, it’s always best to mediate a parenting plan and have the parents decide when and how they see their children as opposed to a judge, who does not know the parties or the children, decide when and how the parents will see the children. 

 Yes, if the statements do not involve abuse because mediators, are mandated reporters. 

Yes. 

A mediated agreement is binding. As such, having an attorney with you will ensure that you understand your legal options and that the agreement you are entering into is in your best legal interest.  

• Never sign an agreement that is supposed to be temporary but does not state the word temporary in the agreement or in its title. 

• Make sure you understand and agree to each statement in the mediated agreement before you sign. 

• You do not have to agree to a mediated agreement. You can walk away from the mediation “table” at any time if you do not feel comfortable with the proposed agreement. 

• The requirement to attend mediation is not a requirement to enter into an agreement. 

• You can enter into a partial mediation agreement. For example: You may enter into a temporary parenting plan without settling any other issues.